It's impossible to discuss most sexual fantasies without talking about porn since the two are so closely intertwined, experts say. Porn has created these clichés – sexy schoolgirl, nurse, librarian – that can be demeaning to women. Plus, the women depicted in these tropes also exist in real life. And sexualizing them can lead to problematic, and even dangerous, behavior. That doesn't mean consenting couples shouldn't role play. But here's what you'll want to talk about with your partner first. To read the full story, click the link in our bio.