Have you experienced a discrepancy in sex drive in your relationship? You're not alone. ⁠ ⁠ A common reaction to an undesirable decrease in our sex lives is to speculate about the “why." Did I do something wrong? ⁠ ⁠ It's important to reflect on how we may have contributed to the situation, but we need to remember there are a lot of reasons intimacy in a relationship may change. And our partners may genuinely not know why their libido has dropped. ⁠ ⁠ And regardless, it’s important to explore how to have our needs met. Some couples explore open relationships or try different avenues to sexually please each other, which may not include actually having sex.⁠ ⁠ Want tips? Go to the link in our bio to read more advice from @millennial.therapist