i am sooo grateful for the outpouring of love, support & kind words from my family, friends & all of you. thank you. from the bottom of my heart. i can’t even begin to explain what these last 10 days have been like for me. i struggle with the fact that i can’t do anything about what has happened but i feel really lucky to have God & a support system. i realized that everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about & it’s true, we must be kind to one another. we have to stick together. for those who are suffering a loss, please know you are not alone. you will overcome this. remember to keep the faith, you are allowed to grieve & things take time. remember to celebrate the good times, the positives, bring light to their name & memory, even though it’s hard. they would have wanted that. i received hundreds of heartwarming stories from people about ray that i will cherish forever. my former fiancé & i may have had our differences but we forgave each other & continued to love each other right to the very end. i may never fully get over this but i will honor the things he would have wanted for my life & i plan to carry his legacy in an impactful way for the community & the causes he was passionate about. i know we will meet again. i hope you all cherish your lives and your loved ones. Be kind friends… with love, KC